How do we learn to mentor? By mentoring others.
The next best way? Eavesdropping on other people mentoring. And thanks to Guy Raz’s wildly popular podcast for entrepreneurs, How I Built This, we can unabashedly eavesdrop by listening to the episodes entitled “Advice Line.” During each “Advice Line” show, an early-stage founder (the Mentee) obtains advice from a seasoned business founder (Guy’s co-Mentor), like Tom Rinks, founder of Sun Bum, and Gary Erickson, founder of Clif Bar. Each conversation follows the same formula: Connect (Smart! Take a moment to learn a bit about a Mentee.) Identify the Issue The Mentee posits a question. If the Mentee begins to offer excessive details about their business, Guy kindly but directly interrupts, “Before we go there, what is your question?” (Smart! Mentees often unload the whole story before revealing the issue.) Seek Context and Backstory (Smart! We tend to solve problems when we hear them. But seeking context from a Mentee before offering help ensures our advice is relevant and valuable.) So, Guy and his co-Mentor ask questions to understand the situation better.
Offer Guidance Explore the Advice Express Gratitude and Conclude The Advice Line formula is deliberately focused, allowing the conversation to transpire organically but with intention. In just 15 minutes, the co-Mentors effectively observe, guide, advise, ideate, validate, and encourage a Mentee. Every mentoring conversation, whether arising in a formal mentoring program or infused into a manager-employee meeting, is more productive when it has structured freedom. Of course, take mentor training and use mentor guides. But to elevate your mentoring skills, listen for opportunities to witness mentors mentoring – they inevitably mentor the eavesdropper! © 2024. Ann Tardy and MentorLead. www.mentorlead.com. All Rights Reserved. |